As it turned out, mothers of babies are usually in the first place, and then, as they grow and mature, take into account others
Why do babies usually love their mother more?
Dr. Jennifer Bragg, a New York-certified neonatologist, told Romper that babies can begin to recognize faces in the first few days of life.
“When a baby is born, they can see about 20 to 30 centimeters in front of themselves, during the first months of life they quickly learn to love the faces of others. “They show a tendency towards the faces of family members in relation to strangers when they turn seven months old”, she says.
Babies tend to love their mother at that early stage for quite obvious reasons – her voice is the one they are most accustomed to. But there are other reasons.
The sense of smell and hearing in babies develop before the senses of sight and usually rely on them to recognize loved ones.
“Most babies develop a tendency for the mother in the first two to four months. From birth, the combination of sight, smell and sound probably helps babies to distinguish their mother from others. “Breastfeeding ensures the perfect distance between the mother and baby’s eyes, and babies like to look at their mother’s face while breastfeeding,” says Dr. Bragg.
She adds that this is how they best experience the smell and sound of their mother’s voice, which they heard all the time they were in the womb.
When do babies start to prefer fathers as well as other family members?
Your child’s attention may begin to wander towards the father and other close family members as he or she grows up and manages to fully identify the people around him or her and begin to socialize.
“During the first months of life, babies begin to communicate socially. “Their most common interactions with mothers usually occur during that period and after that they establish a primary connection with them,” says Dr. Bragg.
She adds that the child is still attached to the individual who most often reacts to his or her communication signs, such as crying or smiling, and this may not always be the mother.
How can a parent whom the baby does not prefer to bond too much with?
If you or your partner notices that your child has a great love for the other parent, there are ways to get closer to the child. By responding to the signs and empathizing with him, the child learns to love and seek the presence of a person who treats him in this way.
“The most common factor according to which the baby develops preferences is who feeds the baby the most,” explains the doctor.
She adds that as the child begins to sit up and play more, this tendency may change more.
“Spending active time playing with a child is not only important for his development, but also for the connection with each other. “The best way for a parent to connect more with a child is through play,” she said.
Even if you are not currently a priority for your child, know that connecting with any of these children is important for their long-term development.
The key to a strong relationship is to love your child and take full care of him or her. As long as you do this, you will always be in the race for the number one position in his heart.